I'll meet you in the shadows

combining human Design, shadow work, and the taboo world of kink to free you from the mental bondage holding you back

Forget the vanilla, basic bitch life you've been programmed into. Here we play in the shadows, embracing all that you've been taught to fear, shame, and hide, enabling you to become the powerful Shadow Domme you are meant to be.

human design

shadow work

D/s psychology

BDSM Sex Toys for Domination and Submission. Leather Whip and Handcuffs

nothing vanilla about this

This is no basic Human Design course. We don't just play on the surface. We thrive in the darkness. We alchemize pain into pleasure. No more of the fucking same, no more accepting mediocrity. We submit in order to dominate.

play

Unmask, un-shame, and begin to decondition the deepest darkest programming secretly running your life so you can begin to solve the mystery of who you are truly meant to be.

embrace

Embrace your inner kink and inner psychic masochism integrating both your 'good' and 'bad' self into one whole being. It is through complete submission to what is that you will release the self inflicted mental bondage keeping you stuck.

dominate

Dominate through your understanding of the power dynamics playing out between your conscious and unconscious mind, becoming a master at holding space & creating the internal safety that allows you to express your deepest desires.



shadow dominatrix summer camp

Are you ready to play in the dark, to face the fears hiding amongst the shadows, liberate the suffering, find and heal the unconscious, lack-obsessed part of you with deep erotic self-love?

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Whoa! I just had an ah-ha moment rush! 🌊


My sentence in this weeks Portal exercise revealed a thought I carry 'Why bother? It won't matter. It won't make a difference.' My sentence revealed how I tried then was rejected; so it has been trying to protect me from rejection! 😳


Funny how, when it goes unnoticed, we can have thoughts of 'I'm lazy. I must not want it bad enough. Etc.'


Sooo good. 😜

linda ann

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Wow, went back and listened again; how powerful Lois.


Meeting my shadow and acknowledging how much pleasure I get from playing victim truly changed the trajectory of my business.


Why don't more people know this process?

Sandra B

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Oh wow!! I just did the exercise of sitting in quiet and letting my body tell me what it needs to feel safe.......whoa my body spoke so clearly. Not systems or anything. It was all about hugs and unconditional love, high fives whether I get 'er done or not.


Lois, I realized for the first time how "conditionally" I was loved...


Wow. Nurture and love the Little....πŸ’œπŸ’™πŸ’š

Barb Cole

how it works

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Program Duration: 6 weeks

Weekly 90-Minute Zoom Discussion Sessions & Hot-Seat Coaching:


Engage in thought-provoking and insightful group discussions led by Mistress Shadow. These sessions are designed to explore various aspects of your shadow self, provide guidance on embracing what is, and alchemize this into your innate gifts. During these interactive sessions, you'll have the opportunity to share your challenges, ask questions, and receive individualized coaching to help you navigate your unique journey.




Personalized Human Design Shadow Reading & Companion PDF Follow-up:


Gain a deeper understanding of yourself through a personalized Human Design Shadow reading. Your reading will focus specifically on your shadow self, highlighting areas of untapped potential and shedding light on potential trauma responses currently playing out. You'll receive a detailed companion PDF that summarizes your personalized Human Design Shadow reading.


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Facebook Community Group:


Join an inclusive community of individuals who are also exploring their shadow selves and embracing their inner kink. This private Facebook group provides a safe and supportive space to connect, share experiences, ask questions, and receive ongoing support.


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Meet Mistress Shadow

Lois St. Germaine, Founder and CEO of My Stiletto Success, LLC, creator of The Inner Power Portal text membership, The Shadow Dominatrix Summer Camp and Host of the Inner Leadershit podcast, is a 35-year Corporate leader turned Shadow Dominatrix.


Her mission?Β To empower women to Escape the Ordinary, Discover Their Inner Power, Embrace Their Inner Kink, and Become their own Shadow Dominatrix.


Her current home is located in the central Texas, specifically Austin, where the motto is 'Keep Austin Weird'.